HER JOURNEY FROM
Pain To Purpose
Tanysha Lee Costales (TLC) was born and raised in Long Island, New York. Growing up in a toxic and deceitful upbringing she knew this was not the life she wanted. Carefully observing her family and using them as the prime example of what not to be.
Living on her own by the age of 16 she was determined to graduate High School. Investing all her free time in summer, day, and night school while working a part time job she accomplished graduating 11th grade in 2009. She received her Medical Assistant Certificate during her first 2 pregnancies. Not being fluent in Spanish she was unable to get a position as a Medical Assistant but was later hired as a Business Analyst.
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As she pushed through to appear successful she was internally dealing with self-hatred, brokenness, and pain. As she put everyone's needs and happiness before her own, the people pleasing she started as a child began catching up to her. It was in this sadness, this mental abuse, this infidelity, this depression where she finally chose to put herself first and walked away from her fiancé to discover self-love.
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She finally tapped into the love she was missing all along and it was that love for herself that changed it all. As she raised her standards and created healthy boundaries her family was restored. But during the time of self-discovery her body became inflicted and she dealt with chronic pain from Fibromyalgia for almost 2 years. It was when she hit rock bottom and could no longer live with the pain that she cried out to Jesus and encountered the healing miracle over her body. Till that day she started walking with Christ and never looked back.
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In 2018 she became the first homeowner in her family at the age of 27. In 2021 she sold her house in NY and purchased her second home in Florida at the age of 30. She left her entire family behind as she drove across the country with her husband and children.
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In October 2022, Tanysha created her indie publishing company Hannah’s Unfading Beauty LLC and pursued writing her book, “Becoming A Virtuous Wife”. Using her personal story of resilience, healing and transformation, she wrote this book to help women reclaim their power, unlock their true potential, and embrace self-love and acceptance unapologetically.
During her self-discovery, she discovered some valuable gems. In her book she breaks down 9 Keys to Conflict Resolution to prepare women to foster healthy intimate relationships and overcome daily struggles.
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She was persistent in spreading the insight and revelation that she applied to her healing journey that she positioned herself in front of the camera to share it with whoever would listen. On February 2023 Tanysha was a sponsor of the R.I.S.E Virtual Summit where she shared her experience in self-publishing her book with the help of Testimony Publishers LLC.
On March 1st, 2023, she premiered as a guest on iDefine TV Business Spotlight Series, streaming on Roku. She discussed how she believes the missing piece when you are communicating personally or professionally is first loving yourself. She recognized how communication with yourself, and your significant other can lead to a healthier and happier relationship. Tanysha, has been featured on Shoutout Atlanta and Xpansion Alchemy Magazine.
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Tanysha is a wife and a mother of 3 who has been walking with Christ for 6 years. She experienced many miracles, signs and wonders as the Lord healed her and her family while continuing to receive breakthrough after breakthrough. She has embraced and embarked on her calling to be used to heal and guide the broken-hearted by being honest, transparent, and vulnerable with the trauma and abuse the Lord has taken her out of. To spread the message of love and the importance of self-love.
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